Who is a real man

If you do not know what you are looking for everything will look like it. A real man is not what most of us think he is today. So who is a real man?

1) A real man is he who has a clear self image, he knows who he is, he does not copy anybody, he is not trying to wear what is in vogue, he is not trying to look like anybody. He knows he is somebody without anybody being anybody. Ladies, please do not marry a man who is trying to be like someone else.

2) A real man is he who is working and love to work. A real man is not lazy, he is never comfortable being fed by a woman. Ladies do not marry a man that promise you he will start to work after marriage, instead marry a man who you met working. Notice, I did not say marry a rich man, there is nothing wrong marrying a rich man, but it should never be a yard stick for marriage.

3) A real man is a cultivator, he is someone that can bring the best out of you, he can develop you and he can also improve you. Do not marry a man who will decrease your value. He must be able to advance you. It is saddening when a lady is hard working,has a good job, good life and then marries a bum!!!., he stays at home always doing nothing.

4) A real man is a protector,  he can protect you and your children, he does not use his strength to abuse you. Do not marry a man who cannot protect you. A real man does not molest his daughters neither does he sodomize his sons. His family are always comfortable and joyful when he is at home. No body dares his wife and children when he is  around. Be a protector.

5) A real man is in the presence of the God, do not marry a cool fool; he says I don't worship, worship is for ladies, I am just cool, NO, he is a cool fool. Do not marry a man you have to encourage to have devotions. Do not marry a man you have to drive to church. Do not marry a man that will drop you in church and go back home.

6) A real man is a teacher of the word, he knows the word and can teach and communicate the word to you. Some men know the name of everybody on the soccer team but cannot list the disciples.

It is only a real man that should not be alone, because he makes a real husband, a real father and a real home. Guys become one today and ladies look for one today.