Catching your own Spouse.

I know some very smart guys they play around with ladies but when it is time to marry they know where they go..... Church!!!!. That is where the finest babes in town are, they are in church. The most beautiful and the smartest are in church, So the guys come. Let me advice you uncle ; if you are not serious with your Spiritual life and your values, the people you will attract will be people whose values are compatible with yours and they will be the ones who are also not serious in church. You will not be able to stand the ones who are serious, because they will ask you for prayer, Let us pray and you will say hmmmm!!!!  No, let us play Scrabble, we will pray later. She is watching you.
You do not pay tithe, you are not in any unit in church, you have not attended any of the trainings in church. The ones that are spiritually serious, they they will not follow you.
   So personally you need to make a commitment to God and to grow and also prepare to be an asset to whoever will marry you. Then having done that the rest is easy. When you feel you are prepared and ready, the next thing is to position yourself where someone can see you and where you can see someone.
   To the guys first, he who finds a wife, found a good thing ;to find a thing you need to look for it, there is no point staying in your bedroom and fasting for 40days,  all you will see will be angels.... LOL.   It is not that prayer is not important, it is absolutely important but am just simply saying you need to watch and pray.
         Where are the places you meet people?  It is in church and it is in the place of service and you will not meet people when you just come and after service you take your bag and go, or you do not even wait before the service is over and you are gone.
* You also meet people at work and in your neighborhood, at least make friends in your neighborhood.
* Then maintain your relationship with your relations and friends, visit people,  Okay!. 
   Is Match Making OK?  Yes it is. You have only two eyes and you can only be in a place at a time. So if someone who knows knows you see someone, the person should be able to mention to you that the answer to your prayer, I saw it. Holy Spirit match making is okay, not the one made out of anxiety.
   Is online dating OK?  Why is it that when it comes to business, making money online, it is OK, then why not dating, so it is. Just be careful because serious deception is possible there.