Catching your own Spouse.

I know some very smart guys they play around with ladies but when it is time to marry they know where they go..... Church!!!!. That is where the finest babes in town are, they are in church. The most beautiful and the smartest are in church, So the guys come. Let me advice you uncle ; if you are not serious with your Spiritual life and your values, the people you will attract will be people whose values are compatible with yours and they will be the ones who are also not serious in church. You will not be able to stand the ones who are serious, because they will ask you for prayer, Let us pray and you will say hmmmm!!!!  No, let us play Scrabble, we will pray later. She is watching you.
You do not pay tithe, you are not in any unit in church, you have not attended any of the trainings in church. The ones that are spiritually serious, they they will not follow you.
   So personally you need to make a commitment to God and to grow and also prepare to be an asset to whoever will marry you. Then having done that the rest is easy. When you feel you are prepared and ready, the next thing is to position yourself where someone can see you and where you can see someone.
   To the guys first, he who finds a wife, found a good thing ;to find a thing you need to look for it, there is no point staying in your bedroom and fasting for 40days,  all you will see will be angels.... LOL.   It is not that prayer is not important, it is absolutely important but am just simply saying you need to watch and pray.
         Where are the places you meet people?  It is in church and it is in the place of service and you will not meet people when you just come and after service you take your bag and go, or you do not even wait before the service is over and you are gone.
* You also meet people at work and in your neighborhood, at least make friends in your neighborhood.
* Then maintain your relationship with your relations and friends, visit people,  Okay!. 
   Is Match Making OK?  Yes it is. You have only two eyes and you can only be in a place at a time. So if someone who knows knows you see someone, the person should be able to mention to you that the answer to your prayer, I saw it. Holy Spirit match making is okay, not the one made out of anxiety.
   Is online dating OK?  Why is it that when it comes to business, making money online, it is OK, then why not dating, so it is. Just be careful because serious deception is possible there.

Who is a real woman

The reason why marriages don't work is because we have a monster ; a creature that has two heads. Di means two, Di + vision= Division =Divorce. Ladies if you want that marriage to work submit your vision to his vision, do not create two visions in a home. So who then is a real woman?

1) She is a helper, she is supposed to help him fulfil his vision. Do not marry a man and try to dictate how he is supposed to live. Do not marry a woman who will try to run your life for you. A real woman studies her husband, she does not irritate or criticize him, what a real woman does is to keep asking him questions, so as to know his real assignment. You are supposed to help him become the ideal man.

2) She is a producer; when he cultivates you, you have got to produce.
He gives you a sperm, you produce a child.
He gives you a house, you produce a home.
He gives you groceries, you produce a meal.

3) She is also an incubator ; something that gives life to something. Women be careful of who you listen to, because you incubate everything.
If you give her word, she gives you a sentence back.
If you give her a sentence,  she gives you a paragraph back.
If you give her a paragraph, she gives you a book back.
If you give her a sperm, she gives you millions of sperms.
If you give her frustration, she gives you hell.
    If you want to be a good woman, make sure you receive the right stuffs, because whatever you receive you are going to multiply and give it to your husband. So if you are on phone talking to a woman who is divorced and you are not or you are talking women whose marriages are not working all the time. Be careful of soap opera you are watching all the time.
*Women if you want to be blessed just shut up, a woman destroys her home with her mouth.

4)She is a receiver,  whatever she sees she desires. She never has enough. A real woman even though she wants it does not pressure her man to get it at all cost. 

    

   

Who is a real man

If you do not know what you are looking for everything will look like it. A real man is not what most of us think he is today. So who is a real man?

1) A real man is he who has a clear self image, he knows who he is, he does not copy anybody, he is not trying to wear what is in vogue, he is not trying to look like anybody. He knows he is somebody without anybody being anybody. Ladies, please do not marry a man who is trying to be like someone else.

2) A real man is he who is working and love to work. A real man is not lazy, he is never comfortable being fed by a woman. Ladies do not marry a man that promise you he will start to work after marriage, instead marry a man who you met working. Notice, I did not say marry a rich man, there is nothing wrong marrying a rich man, but it should never be a yard stick for marriage.

3) A real man is a cultivator, he is someone that can bring the best out of you, he can develop you and he can also improve you. Do not marry a man who will decrease your value. He must be able to advance you. It is saddening when a lady is hard working,has a good job, good life and then marries a bum!!!., he stays at home always doing nothing.

4) A real man is a protector,  he can protect you and your children, he does not use his strength to abuse you. Do not marry a man who cannot protect you. A real man does not molest his daughters neither does he sodomize his sons. His family are always comfortable and joyful when he is at home. No body dares his wife and children when he is  around. Be a protector.

5) A real man is in the presence of the God, do not marry a cool fool; he says I don't worship, worship is for ladies, I am just cool, NO, he is a cool fool. Do not marry a man you have to encourage to have devotions. Do not marry a man you have to drive to church. Do not marry a man that will drop you in church and go back home.

6) A real man is a teacher of the word, he knows the word and can teach and communicate the word to you. Some men know the name of everybody on the soccer team but cannot list the disciples.

It is only a real man that should not be alone, because he makes a real husband, a real father and a real home. Guys become one today and ladies look for one today.

Where money hides....... Cont'd 3

Hello friends, it has been a while, schedules has been tight but guess what today we will start looking at relationships tips and it will be running through out this week. I am as happy as you are but I will just like to give just one more places where money hides, then the next post here will be on relationship. For friends who still want to know more places where money hides after this, then you will have to contact me..... Yes, you will have to, because the time won't be enough for us to discuss everything here. So now let's move forward.

6) Money hides in your gift and talent; Yes it does. There are a lot of talented musicians, comedians, actors, actresses and even artists, yet they are poor. The reason is because talent is not enough. For instance in my country Nigeria, there were lots of comedians in the 60's, 70's, 80's that are poor today or just managing with life but now there is a new breed of people that have built up comedy into an industry, because they have seen that there is money in their talent. That gift and talent you have in there, was put in there by the creator to sustain you.
      Know this,  Your Gold is tied to your Gift, Your Treasure is tied to your Talent and Your Profit is tied to your Potential. Just like the spider has its web to spin and create a world for itself, the creator has put gifts, talents and potentials in you, so that you can spin your web and create your world, because the world you create, is the world you will inhabit.
   The reason why we don't have generational wealth in our time, is because we do not take time to teach what it takes to secure posterity. And this is my passion on this platform, to see you become an epitome of real wealth. Until another time again, I am still Seun Akoyon. Bye.

Where money hides cont'd 2

Always sad on Monday morning and happy on Friday evening, is the experience most people have constantly. The reason is where we will discover more places  where money hides.

5) Money hides in work: Now note, I said work not a job. A job is something you do for survival, so when you go to the office and you say I am going to work, No you should actually be saying I am going to job..... Lol. Job is what you do to earn a living, while work is what you are created to do. Money does not hide in your job, but money hides in your work. For example ; Fishes don't struggle to swim, birds don't struggle to fly. The reason is that the fish was created to be in water and to swim, that is its work, the bird was created to fly and to be in the air, that is its work. 
   Once you discover your passion, your work, you won't need to struggle, you won't need to be having opening time or closing time. Once you discover your passion you can do it 24/7. A work is something you are passionate about, it is something you can do even if nobody pays you for it. That is why when you discover your work, you will be making money with ease. The greatest blessing you can have in life is making money doing what you love. Instead of you running about looking for job, salaries, going round the rat race ;spend time to know what your work is, then money begins to flow to you.

        More to come soon. Bye.

Where money hides!!!!! . Cont'd

Until you  give attention to your intention, the world will not give you attention. Yes that is the real truth and this is where we will draw two more places where money is.
3) Money hides in Idea; Ideas rule the world. Everyday lots of idea are being downloaded into your mind, but what are you doing with the ideas. Has it ever happened to you that you once had an idea that you did nothing about, then suddenly after a couple of weeks you saw someone else doing that same thing you did nothing about, then you begin to regret. Hello, what came to your mind that you did nothing about, somebody else has done something about it, because one thousand good intentions is not as powerful as one action. Everybody is receiving ideas, no body own the monopoly of ideas. It is only those that act upon the ideas that are now called pioneers, inventors and innovators. So all over the world now we have Facebook, Google, Twitter and So On, all these are someone's idea,  that were executed. So when next an idea comes into your mind, please don't discard it, because it might just be a million dollars  ideas.  I hope by now you are beginning to see that nothing just happens, if it is going to be, it is up to you. If it is to be, then you have to make it be.
4) Money hides in products and services ; Money only flows in exchange for a product or a service. If you turn your idea or what you have into a product or a service, you will see that it won't turn into an instrument to make money.
How do you turn what you have around into a product and service?  There are a lot of things you do that people are supposed to pay you for, but the reasons you are not getting paid for it yet is because you have not packaged or turn it into a product or a service.
In the next piece I will continue to show you more places where money hides???

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Where money hides!!!!! Part 2*

Happy weekend friends, I am sure it has been a good week for and you have been having a real nice time on this platform. We will continue on where money hides today......                        
2) Money hides in problems: Every problem you see is money. Your hunger problem is the reason why the food seller is making money. Your nakedness problem is the reason why the cloth seller is making money. Your mobility problem is the reason why the transport company is making money. Your accommodation problem is the reason why the house owner or landlord is making money.                                     So for every problem you have somebody else is making money out of it. For one man's problem is another man's money making opportunity.  Nobody wakes up one morning planning to die but if people do not die, how will the coffin sellers be in business, if people do not have health issues how will the doctors make money, if people do not get into trouble or disagree how will the lawyers eat. So you need to realize that in life that is the way it is. For instance what are the major problems we have all over the world today, cancer, HIV/AIDS and corruption. Now do you not know that if you find the cure for AIDS today you will become a billionaire instantly, you do not need any gimmicks, the entire world will just begin to gravitate towards you, you will become an international figure within the space of 30 days because you have solved the greatest problem on earth.                                    So if you are looking for money, look around you what are the problems in your neighbourhood, what are the things people need or are in search of?  Once you begin to think that way, you will suddenly realize that things are not as bad as you think they are. So just look around you and you will find out that there are still a lot of problem that you can solve.
   Stay tuned because there are still lots of places where money hides, which we would find out later on......